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The Difference Between Being Alone and Aloneness

I must admit, I’m not really excited about this self-quarantine. I like my freedoms. I like to come and go. I like the outdoors. I love crowds. So being holed up in our home has been a little bit of a difficult stretch for me. It's made me feel an aloneness—that I’m isolated from the world. I can’t quite get my bearings with other people. There’s a big difference between aloneness and being alone. God calls us to come to Him alone, quietly, so He can speak to us. “Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest,” the Bible says. This idea of seeking God alone is much different than aloneness. Aloneness is when you feel isolated, like I do. So, what do you do if you’re in this “aloneness” stage? Let me give you four things. First, create a time of worship where you listen to Christian music and speak out themes in the Bible and just worship our God. Second, get involved in a ministry. Find out which of your neighbors are struggling and help them. Write a note to someone who you haven't seen in a while but who has been impactful in your life. Do a surprising amount of ministry, even when you can't go outside. Third, build a strong prayer life. Talk to the Lord, seek Him, know Him so that there is a sense of communication that takes place. Finally, separate time to dream. You have more time. So, dream about what God wants to do in your life and the ministry you’re involved in. Dream a little. Cut loose. Don’t let the routine of life, which has been shattered by this crisis, rob you of the opportunity to dream of the future.

The Crisis Has Focused Us

With the reality of this crisis, we at InFaith have begun to think about what it is that we do that is currently unnecessary. How has this crisis altered what we think is important and what we know is strategic for us to do? We decided that the care of our missionaries is the most important thing we can do. We are a mission agency that loves, cares, supports, and walks alongside our missionaries on the field. So this crisis has caused us to laser focus on that care and cut away what we are doing that doesn't accomplish that particular goal. This crisis has also had us focus on our own self-care. It's amazing when you begin to be defensive about who you touch, who you stand next to, who’s riding in the airplane with you. You can get selfish or you can realize, “I'm doing this because of the care I have of my own being and for my family.” It's amazing to me how many people have just simply denied there is a problem with this virus and meet in groups and hold parties – all of which I believe are selfish acts because they could be spreading the virus around. Finally, this crisis has focused us on the unseen. There are probably a million bloggers that have written on Ephesians 6:12 which reads, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers and authorities and against the powers of darkness and the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” There is a sense that we are being attacked by something we can't see, we can't control, we can’t hedge around it. It will take major self-discipline on our part to slow down this virus because it’s unseen. But what we need to...

The Crisis Has Brought Us Together

Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” It then proceeds to list a whole variety of things. I believe we're in a season where being apart has really brought us together. This is happening in our staff. We looked at the COVID-19 crisis as an opportunity to turn our work toward each other and toward worshiping God. We spent some time in His Word, some time listening to God, and sharing what God had revealed to us during our time alone with Him. The most amazing thing happened—even though we were meeting virtually, and not in the same room—we felt a deeper unity. When people shared, they shared more deeply than they would in the regular rigors of our daily work life. We can tend to go to our desks and cocoon ourselves, maybe not physically, but emotionally and sociologically we isolate ourselves. But this crisis has brought us together because there’s a little more time for us to slow down. The pace of life has necessarily been reduced because we can’t do things as quickly and efficiently as we have in the past. So, it causes us to work together as a group. The crisis has brought us together.

Forty-Eight Percent

In doing some research on the state of young people and church in the United States, I discovered that of the students who were in evangelical church youth groups, went to camp, and did mission trips, only 48% of them still value their faith by the time they're thirty years old. That's pretty disturbing. If you dig deeper, you find out that they are often hurt by theology. Some kids who grow up in charismatic situations really struggle with how to live out their faith as adults. The students who grew up in a more evangelical mainstream church often struggle with the relevancy of the church to what they deal with in everyday life. Another interesting thing to consider is that the way we do worship—with so much supporting material, lights, and projected words—has overshadowed the simple Christian life of being by yourself, spending time alone, and allowing God to speak to you in personal ways. We as Christian leaders need to really consider how we capture this generation. What are we going to do to bring our people together in a way that allows them to see the glory of God without distraction? We need to go after that forty-eight percent.

Eyes Open to the Presence of God

I was talking with a very impressive student this week: she’s smart, a good thinker, a leader. She seems like a person with an amazing future in whatever occupation God leads her into. She has a great family and a wonderful relationship with her father. She knows the Scriptures. During our conversation, I asked her, “Have you ever experienced the presence of God? Have you ever been in a place where you felt like the Lord met you in a very real way and God seemed almost tangible? When the space between heaven and earth was very thin between you and our God?” She looked at me with a blank stare and said, “No, I've never even considered that.” So I suggested to her that we ask the Lord to show up and show us His presence. Risky behavior, I know! But we sat there for probably five minutes with no one saying a word. I could see her thinking, “How long is this going to last?” But then, tears started to form in her eyes. Her hands, instead of being closed, began to open up. Her arms unfolded. And the Spirit of the Lord just ministered to her—no words, no books, no videos, no Christian music—just two people sitting on a bench asking God to show up. Could it be that we make the presence of God either too much for us to handle or we make it too complicated to get into the presence of God? We don't need all of the activities and all of the stuff that most of us surround ourselves with. We need simply to be in His presence.


For the last eighteen years I've been lecturing on the Ten Commandments at various schools. I usually start out the week of teaching with an agree/disagree exercise. I introduce an idea such as, “All murder is wrong.” And then if the students agree, they go to one side of the room. If they disagree, they go to a different side of the room. It's always been a great discussion starter. It gets the students thinking about the Ten Commandments and how they’re not quite as simple as a casual reading of them might lead you to believe. There are deeper issues when it comes to modern science that can make it difficult to see how the Ten Commandments apply to our culture. I was surprised during a recent teaching session that there were several in the group who were deeply offended that I would present something that divided them to the students. Having that interaction of some of the students agreeing and some disagreeing really bothered them. It bothered them because they feel like we ought to work not to display our differences, but to display how we agree. As I got together with some of the students, I began to understand why they were upset by this. We live in a very divided world, particularly in the United States. With the current elections, our country feels so divided and polarized. These students are rebelling against this polarized culture that they're living in. They don't want that in the church, or in their class and school. Instead, they want to see the places that they can agree and move forward. I think as older adults we need to realize what's going on in our culture. What we think is dialogue or a normal interchange of ideas, this group found divisive...

The Secret Place

I have been practicing going to a place that is quiet with no distractions. I don’t take my phone. I take my soul, my body, and my Bible. And I listen to God. He speaks to me in special ways because taking this time breaks down my natural pride in myself and my lack of humility so I can hear the voice of God. Thomas à Kempis in his book The Imitation of Christ, said this: You will find in your “closet of prayer” what you frequently lose when you are out in the world. The more you visit it, the more you will want to return. But the longer you avoid it, the harder it will be to come back. If you are faithful to your secret place, it will become your closest friend and bring you much comfort. In silence and stillness, a devout person grows spiritually and learns the hidden things of the Bible. The tears shed there bring cleansing. God will draw near the person who withdraws for a while. I believe we all need this closeted prayer. And I love when à Kempis says, “the longer we stay away from it, the harder it is to come back.” And it's in those very places that we need God. It's in that intersection between heaven and earth. Let's enjoy being alone in our secret place.

The Ten Commandments

In a couple weeks, I will be going to a Bible school in Germany to teach on the ten commandments for a week. Oftentimes we think of the ten commandments as hard, punitive, tough, difficult, and in some cases, even unfair. It’s a standard that no one can live up to, that no one can perfectly follow except for Jesus himself. And there's a reason for that: Romans 7:12 says that the law is “holy, righteous, and good.” It's holy because it's the perfect expression of God's will. It's the perfect expression of what it means to be a follower of Christ. In the book of Numbers, God says, “You are holy because I am holy.” If you can perfectly, without failing, live up to the ten commandments, you will live out the character of God. But it's impossible. The law is also righteous: it treats everyone the same—whether you're rich or poor; whether you’re well or sick; no matter what country you’re from— we all fall under the law. The law is also good. Galatians 3:24 says, “the law has become our tutor to lead us to Christ.” The law is a righteous, holy, good mirror that we hold up against their lives and realize we're in desperate need of a savior. Without a savior, the law will condemn us. But with a savior, the law is broken. Not broken by my goodness but broken by the grace that comes from our Lord Jesus Christ. I look forward to teaching the ten commandments. They all remind me of how desperately we need Jesus and how amazing it is that he provided the sacrifice for us. We don’t have to live under the law. We are free.

We Are What You Are

Recently I was on a United Airlines flight and I needed to use the restroom, so I was standing in the galley of the plane waiting for the restroom to open up. While waiting, I noticed a sign on one of the catering doors. We all know that United Airlines’ motto is “Come fly the friendly skies”. The sign I saw said, “You are the friendly skies.” That is really true: United Airlines is only as good as the people who run the airline and work at the airline. In the sermon on the mount, Jesus looks all the people in the eye—looks you and I in the eye—and says, “You are the salt of the earth. You are the light of the world.” You want to say, “No, that's your job, Jesus, you are the light of the world. We are followers of the light.” But God says, “No, you become like me. You become what is necessary for me to be dressed up in skin like you.” We become the very presence of God by our actions, our hearts, our minds, and our values. I love that: “You are the friendly skies.” Let me just say this again, “You are the salt of the earth.” And it’s Christ in you that gives you the ability to be that.

Psalm 62:11-12

"One thing the Lord has spoken, two things I have heard: That you, oh God, are strong and that you, oh Lord, are loving. Surely you will reward every person according to what they have done.” We declare that, “surely, God, you are strong.” There is no obstacle, there is no mountain, no barrier, no fence, no moat, no problem that God is not strong enough to wipe off the face of the earth. He is strong and mighty. We can hide behind His strength and hide behind His ability to out-wrestle anything. God is not only strong physically, He’s also strong spiritually, and is a strong safety for us, His people. There is a wall around us, protecting us. The psalmist then says, “and you, oh Lord, you are loving.” Just for a minute, close your eyes and think about the love of God. Think about how He not only died for you to give you forgiveness and freedom from your own sin, but He chooses you to give you gifts. He walks with you. He’s there and wants to dialogue with you during the day. He's not aloof or far off or silent. He is a God that moves and speaks. Love conquers all. The love of God is what we experience and feel and then he rewards people for what they have done. Let’s live in His strength and dispense His love in powerful ways.


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